A
survey of teens found that males interested in
physical intimacy push to have sex earlier, and
females more interested in the emotional side
want to postpone things.
"We
see from these findings that this happens pretty
early in life," said Nadine Kaslow, chief
psychologist at Emory School of Medicine, who
is familiar with the study findings. "If
you think of [an adult] couple who has a fight,
she'll often say, 'Until we're doing better, I
don't want to have sex,' and he says, 'If we have
sex, we'll be doing better.' Kids are showing
you the exact same thing."
Researchers
also found that teens treat casual sex differently
than sex with potential partners, just like adults.
And, in a phenomenon that may sound familiar to
their elders, teens also promise themselves that
they'll wait longer to have sex next time.
Perhaps
surprisingly, sexuality researchers haven't spent
much time studying how adolescents make sexual
decisions.